Tuesday, 25 June 2024

When was the last time that you hand wrote a letter?

 I chanced upon a penmanship contest the topic of which was "When was the last time that you  hand-wrote a letter?" Sadly my handwriting skills have gone unused and have rusted. The topic interested me but with underused handwriting what chance did I stand? Today I generally only handwrite cheques and grocery lists. If the grocery shopper happens to be my better half, then the grocery list is often sent through  WhatsApp. Today, receiving invitations to celebrations on social media is no surprise.

There are many happy memories associated with handwriting and receiving handwritten letters. As a childI wrote to my grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins scattered across the country.  The schoolgirl in me practised what I had been taught,  paying great attention to punctuation, spelling and grammar when writing. So much thought went into the penning of the letter.   Then came the actual scripting in my best hand. If those blue inlands could talk...they would have quite a few tales to tell.  The treasure trove of memories also includes an excited little girl crafting that mandatory letter to Santa, Christmas after Christmas until she finally grew up.
There was always a stack of blue inlands and a half-a - a - dozen or so postcards lying around the house. Mom and Dad wrote to their parents, siblings and relatives.  
 
 The letter-writing continued all through college and extended to college friends too. We were a bunch of crazy college girls living in different parts of the city, hanging out together and writing letters and postcards to each other during vacations telling of the movies we were watching, the books we were reading and other chit -chat.   
I wrote to my mom when I took up a job outside my home city. Then was the odd letter to friends and relatives after marriage in the mid-nineties. It was around that time that the hand-written letter began to lose ground. 
I don’t quite remember when I completely stopped hand writing letters but after I tied the knot and the boys came along the letters were few and far between. 
I have as precious keepsakes a bunch of handwritten letters that see me skipping down memory lane.

When was the last time that you wrote a letter? 

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