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Sunday, 13 April 2025

Kindness: It can be contagious


 

Kindness: It can be contagious

 

The dictionary defines kindness as the quality of being generous, considerate, and friendly. Kindness can be contagious, too, in a good way, of course. So be kind and let everyone catch the kindness bug. 

 

KIndness in practice 

During the pandemic, a stranger reached out to my mother. (It later came to light that the young woman lived in the block of apartments, opposite where my mother lived.)

As she watched my mother struggle with her bag of groceries, the young woman walked up to her and offered to carry the bag for her. Eventually, she began purchasing groceries for my mom and then brought them home to her.  

 A young man patiently explains the workings of her cell phone to a senior. The young man happens to be my son, and the senior a friend of mine. 

Kindness decoded

·       Kindness does not require grand gestures; instead, it emphasizes small acts of generosity woven into the fabric of our lives.

·       This beautiful virtue nurtures connection and empathy. Studies reveal that kindness releases feel-good chemicals in the brain, reducing stress and improving overall well-being.

·       Kindness does not seek attention. It shows up in small gestures—helping a senior cross a busy road, simply being there for someone, holding a door open, giving your seat to a deserving passenger in a train or bus, or being patient when ordinarily you would veer towards irritation.

·       Kindness costs very little but offers so much. As humans, we are wired for connection, and kindness is the language of that connection. When we are helpful, compassionate, or empathetic, we remind each other that beneath our masks, we share a humanness that binds us.

·       Often, kindness requires courage. It compels you to stand up against injustice and not turn a blind eye to the wrongdoings around you. Here, kindness demands awareness and intention.

·       Kindness is a vital aspect of self-care. Treat yourself with acceptance, understanding, and compassion during difficult times. Be sure to forgive yourself and understand that everyone is given to imperfection.  

·       Practicing kindness creates a ripple effect. It impacts the recipient positively, who in turn may be kind to another, and so the cycle continues.  

 

The world today feels selfish and fragmented. Let us then choose to be kind and unite humanity through compassion and empathy, and make a difference.

 

“Throw kindness around like confetti.”


I'm participating in the Blogchatter A2Z challenge. 

Image credit: The cover of a diary belonging to yours truly. 


 

Tuesday, 23 January 2024

Love, sweet love #Remembering Love Bloghop

I Love You         

 

You’re the love of my life,

My source of joy, my inner strength,

My dream every night.

 

You’re the light I seek,

The friend I want to keep.

You understand,

You make no demands.

 

You listen, you appreciate,

Yet you’re my toughest critic,

That’s a blessing I don’t want to forsake.

 

We share our dreams and our fears,

Helping each other through the years,

We argue and disagree,

Yes, love is not easy.

 

I’m flawed and so are you

But the love we share

It is sweet and true.

 

And so I say, again and again,

I love you now and forever more.

My lover and my partner,

Together we shall soar.


Tips to help you improve your love life.


§  You prioritize your partner’s happiness before your own.

§  You love unconditionally, quirks and flaws and work around them to ensure a peaceful and long-lasting relationship.

§  You allow your partner enough time and space for themselves.

§  You’re both, your partner's toughest critic and greatest fan.


§  You believe that actions speak louder than words.

§  You tend to your unwell partner, even waking up in the middle of the night, despite being tired.

§  You stand by the love of your life in their darkest hour and celebrate their achievements.

§  You share a laugh with your sweetheart, not at their expense.

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L Love is a beautiful emotion, but not as straightforward as we would like it to be. 💑Relationships need to be sustained and never taken for granted. 💓So if you are in love, may you continue to appreciate and cherish your partner and if you are looking for love may you find the love of your life.💘

HHappy Valentine's Day!💕

TThis post is part of the 'RememberingLove'BlogHop hosted by Manali Desai and Sukaina Majeed.










Saturday, 29 February 2020

The honey called money.

A piece of paper with a number
That may bring you happiness
Or turn your life asunder.

It is so precious 
You cannot afford to be reckless
You don't want to miss that gorgeous necklace.


Earn, save and then spend
Must absolutely be your trend
You might not be helped by  a friend.


Help someone in need
Do not succumb to greed
Let that be your creed.

Proud to be Left -handed

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