Hard: Hero and Villain

By Marietta Pereira -


 Hard: Hero and Villain

 

.

I’m known as hard. The dictionary defines me as ‘not soft to the touch and difficult to bend or break.'I can also mean harsh or resolute, and over time, those meanings become part of my personality. You can see me as physical, emotional, serious, or humorous.

People use me as a compliment, a warning, or a reason they couldn’t get closer. They might describe a rough patch in life as a hard time or a hardship. Aha! Pardon me, but I remember maths being one of the hardest subjects for you! It was the greatest ordeal of your school life.

I’ve seen how hard it is for you people to let go of your possessions, relationships, past, fears, pride, and grudges and resentments. Take it from me: you’ll feel lighter and more cheerful when you do.

If you’re a cold, unfeeling, and unforgiving person, you may be described as hard-hearted. Ouch!

Children bring joy to your life, but parenting…that’s hard, I hear. Well, good luck with raising your kids.

I hear you complain about your boss and call him a hard nut to please. That’s quite uncomplimentary, but I do wish he would appreciate all the hard work you do.

Besides, you hardly complain about how hard the diamonds and rubies that you lust after are, and you always want your ice cream, nice and firm.  

I hate that you always equate me with difficulty. I’m not all villain. You’re proud of your hard-earned money and the wisdom you’ve gained from hard life lessons. If you’re made of sterner stuff, you can get through those tough times and come out a winner.

I’m kind of famous too! Remember the Beatles song; it's “A Hard Day’s Night," or that humorous one, Lord, It’s Hard to Be Humble.

I would therefore be happy if you remembered the numerous sides I have. I can be a hard taskmaster, or I could be an uncomfortable truth that you must face or the description of the hard-working person that so many admire.  

And yes, I understand that this was a hard post to write. Hee hee.

 

I wrote this post for the Blogaberry Creative (Monthly) challenge, with the theme word HARD.

Image credit : ChatGPT

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts

Love, sweet love #Remembering Love Bloghop

By Marietta Pereira -
Image
I Love You            You’re the love of my life, My source of joy, my inner strength, My dream every night.   You’re the light I seek, The friend I want to keep. You understand, You make no demands.   You listen, you appreciate, Yet you’re my toughest critic, That’s a blessing I don’t want to forsake.   We share our dreams and our fears, Helping each other through the years, We argue and disagree, Yes, love is not easy.   I’m flawed and so are you But the love we share It is sweet and true.   And so I say, again and again, I love you now and forever more. My lover and my partner, Together we shall soar. Tips to help you improve your love life. §   You prioritize your partner’s happiness before your own. §   You love unconditionally, quirks and flaws and work around them to ensure a peaceful and long-lasting relationship. §   You allow your partner enough time and space for themselves. §   You...
Read more

A stitch in time and being fit and fine.

By Marietta Pereira -
Image
  A nasty freakish fall in my kitchen does damage to the palm of my left hand, which is also my working hand and has me literally in stitches this New Year. Praise God, it could have been worse. My head is intact and I do not have to contend with any broken bones.  There are all these diets flying around, I have tried a couple, succeeded and failed and tried again. At 54 you want to dress well and look good. What does looking good entail, especially for women of 50+?  A healthy weight. For some of us, a healthy weight is hard to come by. One is called upon to garner every ounce of self-discipline and motivation in order to achieve that ideal weight. I have burnt my fingers and presently struggling with weight issues. The festive season did not help. It is going to be a long uphill climb. God help me! A haircut that does not add years but dignity to your face and elegance to your being. On the matter of hair, whil...
Read more

Sattu: A Superfood.

By Marietta Pereira -
Image
  Sattu: A Superfood.     I was introduced to Sattu at a healthcare programme and have grown fond of it. I try and incorporate the food into my diet in various ways. Popular in Jharkhand, Uttar Pradesh, Punjab, Bihar Uttarakhand, and even some parts of Pakistan Sattu is a protein-rich, plant-based flour made from dry-roasted Bengal gram or chickpeas. This recently recognized superfood is said to have originated in Tibet where it is called TSampa.It is also available in different forms, such as wheat, barley or Jowar. Sattu ki Kadi  owar.  Sattu is especially beneficial during the summer because of its cooling properties. Sattu is unique to Bihari cuisine and Litti Choka remains a popular dish even among non-Biharis. Litti is a whole wheat dough ball stuffed with a spiced mixture of sattu and served with a veggie mash called chokha.   The littis are traditionally roasted on charcoal fires but in homes they are generally baked in an oven.  ...
Read more