Tackling adversity

 

Tackling Adversity

 

“In the middle of every opportunity lies adversity.”

                                                         Albert Einstein

Adversity affects each of us. We may choose to wallow in self-pity, become angry, bitter, and frustrated, or we may decide to find the silver lining. In the challenge, we may see an opportunity to grow and become better versions of ourselves.

Adversity comes to us in various forms, including our relationships, finances, health, and careers, among others. Adversity may bring out the best in us or the worst in us. We would be doing ourselves a favour by choosing to find the opportunities and possibilities for strength and growth rather than lamenting our fate. Difficulties push us out of our comfort zones. They make us think and act differently in ways that we might not have otherwise. Instead of the “why me?” refrain, adversity can be an opportunity to pull up our socks and inch forward.

A close friend has lost her job as an administrator and accountant in a doctor's clinic. and has spent months running from pillar to post searching for another job but remains unsuccessful. She begins to explore fields different from hers and sees an opportunity in pursuing another passion—nursing. She’s working on it... She’s not sure if it will take off but is not averse to exploring the opportunity.

 

When adversity strikes:

 

·       Explore possibilities and opportunities

Cultivating a positive mindset and looking for opportunities to learn and grow from difficult situations is the key to tackling adversity.

 

·       Count Your Blessings

Despite the adverse situation, you are still blessed in so many ways. Recognising and giving thanks for the blessings can help you see opportunities in an otherwise hopeless situation.

 

·       Find and put in place a strong support network.

 

Having a strong and true network of friends, egging you on and helping you stay positive, is essential when you are under stress.

 

·       Adapt and Adjust

    The only constant in life is change, and once we get used to the idea of change while working on being adaptable and adjusting, it helps us deal with adversity.

 

·       Take a trip down memory lane

Reflecting on past experiences and the lessons learnt from them helps tackle present adverse situations.

 

Stay strong, stay resilient, and don’t let that opportunity slip away when it comes knocking on your door.

 

This post is my entry to the weekly Blogchatter Bloghop

prompt. 

When God became my PA for a day.

 

When God became my PA for a day.

 

Life was getting overwhelming. My to-do list was growing by leaps and bounds. I spent sleepless nights wondering where to begin and where to end. I decided to ask for divine intervention. “Could you please help me tackle this humongous list?" I pleaded and began to imagine what a day in my life would look like if the Divine One, or the Big Guy, as he is fondly referred to, were to be my PA for a day.

 

 

Morning Mayhem (divine intervention)

Instead of an alarm clock piercing my ears, I would gently be awakened by an angelic choir singing, “Rise and Shine.” That is certainly music to my ears. Instead of my usual filter coffee, a cup of foamy celestial latte sprinkled with stardust awaits me. There are pancakes, soft and fluffy as the clouds, and wild honey for breakfast. I needn’t worry about what to wear to work. My OOTD is all laid out, not a crease or a wrinkle to be seen. I love what I see. I don’t have to open the closet, stare at my clothes, and spend half an hour wondering what to wear. I usually have to negotiate a beastly traffic jam, but the Divine One is at work again. The roads are clear in peak time traffic, and I zoom through, reaching the office in record time.

 

Workday woes turn to workday wins.

Surprise! My boss decides to give me the coveted corner office because it has the best view, and my otherwise hot-headed boss suddenly thinks I deserve a reward for my hard work. I smile to myself. I log in to my computer and am delighted to find that the most difficult emails have been addressed; my constantly overflowing inbox is now clear. Spammers have been blocked, and business meetings that I wasn’t looking forward to ended on a happy and positive note, while a couple of them have been cancelled too. That’s what you call divine providence! The Wi-Fi works like a dream, and the printer is just so well-behaved. I’m not afraid of deadlines and begin pepping up the spirits of colleagues in TED Talk lingo. Oh! Could it get any better?

 

After Hours

I’m able to beat rush hour traffic, almost flying over honking cars and giant buses. I come home to dimmed lights and a supper straight from the good book—roasted fish, unleavened bread drizzled with olive oil, and an array of herbs.

I’m inclined to watch a movie, and I find Netflix streaming The Ten Commandments. I’m too tired to surf, so I watch a little and then find myself dozing off, so I head to bed. Once again, I hear a chorus of angels lulling me to sleep. I drift off, dreaming of a bearded gentleman in a long white robe who always has my back.

Perhaps having God as our PA isn't about performing earth-shattering miracles; it's about infusing our everyday work, commitments, and relationships with that same sacred energy and divinity, thus channeling that same sacred energy. 

My Tryst with Reels

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I love watching reels, and I love commenting on them, but making them—that’s a tale I shy away from telling.

Reels are fun to make, but it takes a certain amount of skill and expertise to put one together. Once the images are chosen, you’ve got to arrange them, choose the music, and decide on how much of the tune or song you would like to use—here I generally mess up. I’m never able to apply the right length of the tune; it's either too long or too short, or the reel is made without any music, and I have to start over. I’m all thumbs as far as filters and transitions go and can barely manage the text, but I persevere, and the result is usually like that of a child learning to write the alphabet.

I watch Instagrammers reveal “secret Instagram hacks’ on how to get the “zoom effect” for a reel or story and umpteen other hacks on making the greatest reels ever. I decide to try a couple of these and end up attempting ‘a hundred’ start-overs.

Nonetheless, I’m participating in the Blogchatters #15DaysReelChallenge and wish me luck.