Showers of blessing

Blue skies turn to grey,

The heavens open wide,

Streaks of light

Dance in the darkened skies.

 

Blobs of silver begin to fa

Kissing the parched earth,

 Filling every river and bay.

Children frolic in the rain

And watch paper boats sail away.

 

The mighty tree sways in glee

The grass is green

 The thirsty earth

Now begins to breathe.

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Man rejoices

In the petrichor so sweet,

While bird and beast

Are still and calm.

Savouring nature’s balm.

 

It’s time to don your wellies and open your brollies

And sip on some warm broth, too

Do you love the rain

As much as I do?

Thank you, Lord

For your showers of blessing.

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The Indian Soldier: Valour, Sacrifice and More

 The Indian Soldier: Valour, Sacrifice and More

 

We learned to sing “Yeh Sone ki Hai Dharti” and a couple of other patriotic songs in school. Every time we sang them, I felt as proud as a peacock to belong to this wondrous land we call Bharat Mata.  

We love our motherland and would not want to endanger her or her sons and daughters in any way. Hence, I am also very proud of our soldiers, our bravehearts, who risk life and limb to protect and preserve our precious Bharat Mata and her children in every way. From the icy Siachen glacier to the scorching deserts of Rajasthan, across skittish border conditions, in the dense jungles of the northeast, our soldiers never fail to prove their mettle and might.

The Indian Army is the second largest military force in the world and is the  world’s largest volunteer army. A volunteer army consists of individuals who volunteer to serve rather than being conscripted or drafted. 

 

Protecting the nation:

The Army, Navy, and Airforce which comprise the Indian Armed Forces, are among the largest and most disciplined armed forces in the world. Their indomitable spirit and unwavering commitment to protecting the nation from the evils of war and terror are truly commendable.

 

Of the soldier’s life:

A soldier leaves the comfort of his home and his precious family to live and work in the harshest of terrains, under extreme weather conditions, and survive on the minimum of resources. He lives his structured and disciplined life without complaint. He is called to make the ultimate sacrifice if needed in times of trouble.

 As they provide yeoman service in disaster relief and civilian rescue, soldiers are not only warriors but also humanitarians.

 

A legacy of valour.

Whether in Kargil, in conflicts with her neighbours, or quelling insurgencies within the country, India’s military history is defined by the courage and heroism of her soldiers.

 

Our soldiers are a unifying factor in the diversity of India. They play a crucial role in the nation's security and stability. We salute them for who they are and what they stand for. Jai Hind! 

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Summertime

 

Zeal: The fire within

 

Zeal: The fire within

 

 

The dictionary defines zeal as a ‘great energy or enthusiasm for a cause or gain.’

As the Blogchatter A2Z challenge draws to a close, I commend the enthusiasm and effort of my fellow bloggers who pursued the challenge relentlessly, writing, engaging, and completing it.  

Zeal is that inner fire that pushes individuals to pursue a goal or a passion even when the path is fraught with obstacles. It is that secret ingredient that turns ordinary actions into extraordinary achievements.

 

Zeal Matters

Zeal matters because, without zeal, the most ambitious of goals might fall by the wayside. It is only zeal that keeps pushing us forward when things get tough. Zeal fuels commitment, sharpens focus, and turns aspirations into reality.

 

How Zeal Works:

·        Personal growth:

Cultivating zeal encourages learning and self-improvement. It’s about pursuing passion and achieving goals.

 

·        In your profession

Zeal equates to dedication and innovation. Zeal is the difference between doing a job and making an impact.

 

·        Spirituality

Zeal in religion works as a burning desire to build spiritual health and abide by divine principles.

 

·        Parenting

As a parent, your zeal is manifested when you nuture and encourage your children’s passions, instilling in them the values of dedication and enthusiasm.

 

 

Zeal in history:

There are many iconic leaders who, because of their zeal for their causes and commitments, were able to bring about reforms and change the political landscapes of countries.

 

·        Mahatma Gandhi

His unwavering commitment to non-violent resistance led India to independence and influenced the civil rights movement.

 

·        Martin Luther King

He passionately advocated racial equality and nonviolence and made the iconic speech, “I have a dream.

 

·        Nelson Mandela

Mandela zealously fought against apartheid in South Africa and transformed it into a multiracial democracy.

 

·        Mother Teresa

Mother Teresa’s commitment to caring for the underprivileged and sick made her an icon and, posthumously, a saint by the Catholic Church.

 

"Through zeal, knowledge is gotten, through lack of zeal, knowledge is lost; let a man who knows this double path of gain and loss thus place himself that knowledge may grow." ~ Gautama Buddha

Do you hold a strong passion towards a particular cause or commitment?

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Young at Heart: Living with Intention

 Young at Heart: Living with Intention

 

 

My mother-in-law made a conscious decision to stay young at heart, and until she passed away at 91, she was cooking, attending church services, participating in church activities, and practising yoga. There were a few ailments, but she never let them deter her from living life to the fullest as much as was possible. At 61, I try to use my mother-in-law as a role model and not give in to the limitations that aging brings.

Staying “young at heart” doesn’t mean clinging to youth. It means making a conscious decision to remain joyful, curious, and open. Ageing is inevitable, but how we view the ageing process is a conscious choice we make. Some feel weighed down, while others choose to embrace each year with intention and adventure.

 

What does it mean to be young at heart?

 

·      Choosing to laugh freely and often because laughter is the best medicine.

·      Experimenting without the fear of failure.

·      Hanging in even when life sucks. Life is most unfair, but take time to count your blessings.

·      Choosing relationships that nourish rather than drain. Engage in genuine friendships and deep conversations.

·      Continue to move because movement is medicine, and movement supports agility and longevity.

·      Never stop learning. Stay curious, explore, read, travel, and broaden your horizons.

·      Stay lighthearted. Play, dance, and sing. Singing and dancing badly is permitted, so just do it. Play board games, doodle. Just have fun.

·      Dream on. Goals and dreams don’t come with an expiry date.

In the words of author Ruskin Bond, “Don’t stop dreaming, no matter how old you are and no matter how much you have achieved, because you can always do things better. You can write a better book, find a better piece of music or a better song or a greater painting. You could always do better. Hold on to your dreams.”

Gentle Reminder:

Ageing intentionally is more about living better than living longer. So live, laugh, love, be yourself, choose joy intentionally, and whisper a prayer.

 

What are you going to choose today?

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Xenial Living

 

Xenial Living

 

In today’s world, fraught with negativity, bad blood, and bloodshed and where technology overshadows genuine connections and relationships, we could do well by adopting a Xenial way of life.

The word xenial is derived from the ancient Greek words xenos, meaning stranger or guest, and xenia, meaning hospitality.

Xenial living is therefore a personal philosophy or a culture of openness, friendliness and mutual respect. Besides celebrating the bond between host and guest, xenial living also applies largely to how we interact with our community. 

In a nutshell, Xenial living is about opening up our homes to friends and strangers (a little cautious with strangers) and creating physical and emotional spaces where people are seen, valued, and welcomed.

It’s not about extravagant dinners or picture-perfect homes but about rustling up a meal even from leftovers for unexpected guests, inviting them to stay in our slightly messy home, and just being hospitable.

 

Why Must We Embrace the Xenial Way Of Life?

 

·       Fosters Community:

Being kind and hospitable deepens bonds, promotes trust and strengthens relationships.

 

·       The Ripple effect

Acts of kindness and generosity can create the ripple effect, where your kindness and generosity can inspire the receiver to do the same for another. 

 

·       Makes the world a better place

Kindness, generosity, friendliness, and compassion create a more beautiful world.

 

 

 Practising The Xenial way of life:

 

·       Be warm and friendly:

Make others feel valued with small gestures—remembering names, offering a seat or a ride, pulling out a chair, or simply smiling.

 

·       Create spaces for connection

Organize get–togethers, meals, or virtual meet-ups which bring people together and deepen bonds and connections.

 

·       Be Present

Listen to people. Let them feel heard and understood.

 

·       Offer support

Check in on a friend, a senior citizen, or a sick neighbour.

 

·       Practise inclusivity

Appreciate different cultures, traditions, and perspectives. There is unity and beauty in diversity.

 

What’s one Xenial gesture that you can make to brighten someone’s day? 

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Worry Less, Live More

 Worry Less, Live More

“Worry is a total waste of time; it doesn’t change anything. All it does is steal your joy and keep you very busy doing nothing.”

 

I tend to be a “worryworm.” I worry 24/7 about things big and small—rising prices, dwindling finances, when the boys will come home, their careers, their life partners, the family’s health, and the list is never-ending. Worrying is like a second nature to many of us, but all it does is steal the joy out of our lives and give us sleepless nights. 

I’ve been told a dozen times that worrying doesn’t solve problems; it doesn’t change the outcome. Stressing over things you can’t control or things that haven't happened yet is exhausting.

(I'm also addressing this post to myself.)

“When I asked him—Mr. Henry Ford- if he ever worried, he replied: "No. I believe God is managing affairs and that He doesn't need any advice from me. With God in charge, I believe that everything will work out for the best in the end.
So what is there to worry about?”
― Dale Carnegie, How to Stop Worrying and Start Living: Time-Tested Methods for Conquering Worry

  

Why do we worry?

Our worry stems from a sense of wanting to be prepared for and be in control of what lies ahead. Worry is also a response to stress and fear. While worry can sometimes push us to find solutions, excessive worry can lead to distress and disenchantment. This negative trait will then dictate our moods and decisions. Like any other habit, worry can be replaced by intention and awareness.

 

How Does Worry Affect Us?

Mental fog:

Excessive worry dulls the brain and obstructs our ability to think and focus clearly.

 

Physical toll:

Too much worry takes a toll on our physical health. We may begin to suffer from headaches and other issues.

 

Missed Opportunities:

When worry controls us, we miss out on living in the present.

 

Simple Shifts That Help You Worry Less:

·       Focus on what is, not what might be.

Only worry about what is happening today because that may be all you can control.

 

·       Talk it out

Confiding in a trusted friend can make things better.

 

·       Move

Stretch, dance, walk. The exercise releases the tension from your brain

 

·       Let go of the perfection

Being a little messy is okay. When you strive for perfection, you surely will get anxious and worried.

 

·       Practice gratitude

When you’re aware of the blessings in your life, you might feel anxious or worried.

 

When you stop worrying…

 

When you let go of the weight of worry, you create space for joy, creativity, and connection. You begin to live life to its fullest. It’s easy to be a “worryworm,” but worrying won’t change the outcome; living will.

What's that one worry that you are going to let go of and rediscover something that makes you happy? 

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Vices We Love: Defending guilty pleasures

  Vices We Love: Defending guilty pleasures

 

 

Dear Vices,

Slowly and surely, you slipped into my life—that bar of chocolate at midnight that plate of pani puri, those outfits I didn’t need, and those occasional nights of binge-watching Downton Abbey. That sugar rush gives me comfort, joy, and escape from a world that can be hard as nails, and despite what society says, I will continue to seek you out.

There are times when engaging in a vice can feel like an act of rebellion against the pressures of life. “I deserve this” or “to hell with diet.” That fleeting sense of freedom feels so good.

Clean living, discipline, minimalism and perseverance are being rammed down my throat, and anything out of the arena is deemed evil or detrimental to my health.  You remind me that I’m not a robot; I’m human, and it’s okay to eat something without counting its health benefits or watch a show just because it’s silly and funny.  

When I’m hurt, disappointed or feel rejected, it is you who offers me comfort. I know I shouldn’t make you a habit and must learn to deal with situations, but sometimes you come to the rescue more effectively than a mantra recited by some guru.

If you help me cope, I feel no regret or guilt, and I don’t feel the need to replace you with something else without punishing myself; I can continue to seek your company. I just need to remember that moderation is the key, and I cannot lose control.

 

          In a world that demands improvement, resilience, and perfection, you allow me to goof around, to be myself, to be human.

 

Thank you.

Marietta.

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Understanding Minimalism: Decluttering for a Better Life

 

I confess I was not big on decluttering and hung on to stuff because I felt that at some point in time, I would need it or because of sentimental value. More recently, I started donating a few of my clothes that I’d hope I would fit into someday, but came to realise that, in all probability, that day would never dawn. The person I’ve donated the clothes to never fails to tell me how happy she is with them and the compliments that she receives. I feel so glad that I’ve made someone else happy. Someone said, “Happiness is a byproduct of making someone else happy.” I’ve started to work harder at disposing of stuff that simply occupies valuable space and feel good about it. It brings a sense of order and organisation into my life. I need to declutter in other aspects of my life. 

Decluttering is a fundamental aspect of minimalism. A minimalistic lifestyle is when you consciously decide what you allow to stay in your home, workplace and life.

You aim at living with less, not for the sake of having less but to make room for what truly matters to you in terms of possessions, relationships, and personal growth.

Undoubtedly, adopting a minimalistic lifestyle begins with decluttering physical space, but it also includes a digital, mental, and calendar declutter. Peace of mind rather than an empty house must be your focus.

 

·        Digital decluttering

Reducing the number of apps and screen time, clearing out old and unwanted emails, unsubscribing from email addresses, unfollowing, and deleting.

 

·        Mental decluttering

Letting go of toxic and superficial relationships, overthinking and multitasking.

 

·        Time management

Saying no to obligations and commitments that don’t align with your priorities.

 

Benefits of Minimalism:

 

·        A Clear Mind

A decluttered space creates clarity of thought and a rational thought process.

 

·        Financial freedom

Spending less and cutting out unnecessary items aids your financial health.

 

·        Environmental impact

Consuming less reduces waste and promotes sustainability.

Finally, minimalism is not about owning less; it’s about adding value to your life and finding peace. There are no rigid rules. What works for one may not work for the other. If I prefer downsizing my wardrobe and uninstalling distracting apps, another may prefer to cut down on purchases and let go of superficial relationships.  

It’s about decluttering your life and not just your closet. 

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Dear A Man Called Ove,

I had heard so much about you that when I spotted you at a book fair, I couldn’t resist grabbing you. You were my first book, by author Fredrik Backman, and I did not know quite what to expect. You turned out to be funny and poignant, and I loved you for that.

You gradually began growing on me as grouchy but principled Ove slowly began revealing his heart of gold in his interaction with his neighbours, whom he considers to be idiots.

The story you hold is simple and realistic, with many emotions like grief, loss, and joy skillfully woven into it. You turned out to be unputdownable.  I’m currently watching your movie A Man Called Otto, starring Tom Hanks, who does a fantastic job of portraying Ove (Otto) on Netflix. 

It’s your day today. Happy World Book Day!

Lots of love,

Marietta

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The Things I Love Doing Alone

 

The Things I Love Doing Alone

 

 

Shopping—Aside from grocery shopping, I love shopping, especially when I'm alone. When it comes to clothes and accessories, I enjoy taking solo trips. I can take my time, avoid being swayed by someone else's suggestions, and choose whether to buy or not. Unlike grocery shopping, the load is never too heavy.

Dancing- I have 2 left feet and cannot bring myself to dance in public. I am overcome by an unimaginable sense of shyness and fear that I am doing it all wrong. Being home alone is a completely different story. There are days when I switch on music, literally let my hair down and strut my stuff. I know nobody's watching and couldn't be bothered whether I look like a monkey or a bear or whether I’m doing it right or wrong. Just moving to the rhythm of the music gives me a high.

Reading—happiness is curling up with your favourite author when you’re home alone. I enjoy reading and reading minus the distractions is taking happiness to another level.

Writing - Writing needs concentration, and I do it best when alone. Ideas are more forthcoming in the absence of sound and movement. 

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Exercise - it’s fun to exercise in a group or with family and friends but going on that solitary walk also appeals to me. I can walk at my own pace, in my own time and enjoy my own company.

Watching TV/ Binge watching - Binge watching shows that I love all by myself is just so cool.  My husband and I have vastly different choices, and alone I can enjoy the show to the fullest.

Enjoying your own company is great. There are times when you want to be alone, or you have no qualms about doing stuff alone, or there is certain stuff that you love doing alone. 

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