Saturday, 24 November 2018

A Tsunami of memories.

It was with mixed emotions that I stepped down from the train that very late evening of October 3rd. I was visiting the city that I had grown up in. Jamshedpur or the 'steel city' as it is known as holds memories aplenty for me. My husband being a true blue Mumbaikar was curious to visit the city where I had made memories. He was not disappointed. 
Work brought my father to the city when I was just 3 years old and we went on to live there for 22 years. Childhood was fun. With no mobile phones, there was plenty of time and space for good old-fashioned outdoor play. College was also fun. The happy, crazy gang are still in touch with each other. 
Almost every place stirred up a memory and I happily travelled back in time. Visiting old neighbours reliving the good old days sure brought back so many smiles. As I stood outside the cottage that I once called home, more memories came flooding back. 
 I must mention the hospitality shown by the friends and neighbours who yet live in the city was more than generous. We spent the first 5 days in a club, courtesy a friend and the next 3 days at the Boulevard, now a heritage hotel. I first stayed at the hotel as a 3-year old when mom and dad moved to Jamshedpur. 
Jamshedpur is basically a private town-owned and run by corporate giants Tata. It houses the Tata Iron and Steel company and the automobile plant - Tata Motors and a host of other sister concerns. People from all over India come to work in these companies and for all practical purposes, Jamshedpur was, is and will remain a cosmopolitan city. I left the city when I was 24 years old in 1989, returned to it for a couple of days in 2010 and then revisited it again this year after a span of 8 years. wAS I surprised? 
The tiny, quiet town is still minus an airport but the traffic can now give traffic in any other big city a run for its money. 8 years ago I recognised many of the shops that I had grown up with but this time I found that most of them had disappeared to be replaced by brand outlets and jewellery showrooms. I was thrilled to find New Kangan Stores, a general store from where mom and I purchased numerous hairpins, ribbons, needles and thread still standing in a quiet corner as ramshackled as ever. The fish cum mutton mart desperately needs a few coats of paint while many of the streets remain the same. I successfully found my way in and out of the market area. 
A large number of hotels and high rises have mushroomed all over the city and the High Tech city mall - the first ever mall in the city remains the showstopper. I was amazed to see so many new structures on the XLRI campus. Having worked briefly in the library, I was once again submerged under a tsunami of memories. An old colleague took us on a tour and even treated us to lunch in the student's mess. 
The Jubilee Park where I spent many a Sunday evening and enjoyed quite a few picnics looks as beauteous as ever. 
Technically I belong to Maharashtra but this quiet little town in a faraway state of the county will always hold a place in my heart.      

Wednesday, 14 November 2018

On Children's Day...

They have stayed awake late
After having too much plum cake
Spotty skin, runny nose
They sure do keep you on your toes.

They've been scribbling on the walls
Interrupted your telephone calls 
Often driving you nuts 
 With their 'ifs' and 'buts.'

And yet 
You are there to banish their blues
And kiss away their boo - hoo - hoos.

You beam with pride
At hesitant step or furious stride
One so shy  another so bold
Each little treasure 
Is yours to have and to hold

No malice and hatred
To drive you wild
No guile, no violence 
Only sweet, sweet innocence. 

Thank you,
Lord
For the joys and the tears
Let us keep them close through the coming years. 










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